SGGURLS FB update November 2018

1. A new logo
Merging Trish's original SGGURLS logo with Nur's banner upload.
 Nur uploaded a new banner that had that was designed by Monica Helms in 1999. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender_flags http://point5cc.com/the-history-of-the-transgender-flag/
 SGGURLS original Logo was design by Trish in 2007.
 SGGURLS facebook forum is a private forum where member's post can be read by members only. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/  

2. Promote only SGGURLS services & businesses. Members of Sggurls are encouraged to promote their activities and businesses on one another. Businesses and services that are legal in Singapore such as makeup services, custom-made dresses, comfortable ladies shoes (size 44+++) and event places are highly sought after. SGGURLS is making a strong comeback with a healthy ~3800 members.I am told by quite a few friends well connected in the lgbt community that SGGURLS remain the biggest trans forum in Singapore. It's no secret to SGGURLS growing numbers despite being a private group. Sggurls is inclusive and members are tought how to advertise private events so as not to make other members feel excluded. A anecdote of this inclusiveness can be found SGGURL's bank of photos. Taking a selfie is no challenge. A wefie, is more fun & inclusive. In the early days of SGGURLS, almost all the pics were wefie in public places. Though it may not seem like a lot, it was a big mindset change for the gurls who took pictures of themselves. The gurls knew of each other but were not connected. SGGURLS became a gateway to connect people. Events organised are for the SGGURLS community to say hi. There no paegent in SGGURLS, no competition for who's more beautiful. Just a place to socialise and a place to say 'hey, I am going to this place. Wanna hangout?"
  3. SGGURLS moderators.  Despite losing it's first batch of moderators, SGGURLS moderator team has grown to 14. The moderators work hard to keep the forum free of stupidity.
  4. Facebook insights on SGGURLS As moderators, we have access to some interesting statistics in Facebook. popular days: popular time: gender:
  5. Can I come back? Quite a few are expelled from the group in keeping SGGURLS peaceful, sane and inclusive. Every 12 months, I do the unbanning. People can return anytime, but on the promise that they don't post hateful messages, run exclusion campaigns especially from the old guards that made our admirers feel left out, or spam SGGURLS.

  6. Where to find Nic on a weekly basis? I usually post events on FB on a weekly basis. You find me only a handful of places. Lately, I am in love with this place call Lulu's. Here is me @ Lulus last night.

Luv

Nic

founder of SGGURLS

kik nicolesingslave

SGGURLS an open umbrella transgender social group. Friends welcome. Be cool, friendly and comfy in your own skin.

When contacting me, please introduce yourself. I get 200-300 messages a day. Save your 'hi' and 'how are you?' They get deleted instantly.

Old sggurls forum: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Most of us are on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641

My old BDSMasia forums. If you are in the SM circle, an active SM player, level headed and people know you, then you can have the forums. I need a successor. Just contact me. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmasianetwork

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

SGGURLS' mid-year Chalet Party

SGGURLS' mid-year Chalet Party
4th of July, Singapore.
The chalet was crammed and the place crowded but it didn't stop the 20 plus people from having lots of fun and good food. In case you're wondering why all the pics were indoor, our camera women (Fifi + Kayla) didn't take any photos outdoor because of poor ligthing. Of course our main photographer, Kayla, Elisa and Bobby were busy manning the BBQ pit.
We had a preview of the Calendar mockups done by our resident designer Trish Leong (who incidently designed the SGGURL's logo) and Bobby who did the physical mock-up. The ideas were fantastic. There were some creative tension which are always wonderful when talents collide. Kayla ran through the processed pics. Its too bad that we have to shortlist them as they look simply divine. Bobby suggested choosing some of the pics from our outing as they had lots of candid moments. In most of our SGGRUL's outings, the gurls tried create a journal to describe the things that we do. We have been successful in reaching out to many closet gurls that it is perfectly okay to come out and hang with us.
Xiang Ning, Edwina, Ada, Des, Deanna and Nic had an interesting discussion about HRT especially the drastic transformation that the body will go through. The discussion centered around mood swings, dosage and the social perception of these changes. The topic was too complex to result in any conclusion. Nevertheless it was still stimulating to talk about something so touchy. We did touch a bit on our belated sister Mel. We hope that we can do something in her memory with the proceeds from the calendar.
Rose showed us her Facebook and some of her voluptious...er...beautiful girlfriends. Dessert was well served. During the BBQ, Ada and Des related a haunted tale of the chalet that we rented. Bobby said that it was probably a horny ghost looking for worn panties. :-O.
We are very happy to receive overwhelming support from our Andrew, Shaun, Rebec, Mr.Tan, Alice, Samantha, our dear founders of SGButterfly, Rose's friends and some whom I have inadvertently forgotten. :-P
For more on Singapore's transgender groups:
SG Butterfly http://www.sgbutterfly.org
SGGURLS http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls