A break from Fly Aeroplane

Fly Aeroplane or fang feiqi / fong fei kei (放飞机) is a Singaporean idiom of not showing up for dates or cancelling dates. 2020 was starting to look like 100% Fly Aeroplane. The reason?

A super comfy big velvet bucket seat that just holds me like a soft giant hand awaits me at home. I can just curl up and chill on Mr.Big Black Hand or MBH for short. MBH handily won over many ho-hum dates. I get nice gifts from my dates but its the dull script with the inept actor that comes after it. Can't I just get the gift and kiss each other good bye?
 
There are only a few people who can get me off MBH. One of them is my best friend for more than 15 years, Adaline. It's hard to ignore her when she comes right up to my place, honks and drags me into her car. Besides Lulu's lounge is one of my favorite joins. Two reasons for delivering me to SGGURLS monthly meet. Here's a short video:

 SGGURLs is Singapore's largest transgender forum. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641

happy holidays from all of us in SGGURLS

xxoo from all of us in SGGURLS

Singapore's larges transgender forum:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/

SGGURLS NOV 2019 MEET

This lil diary is a canvass for my thoughts, it's probably the only cohesive chronicle of SGGURLS genesis. SGGURLS is a Singapore based umbrella transgender group founded on Oct 31st 2007 by a very unlikely group. SGGURLS started when many didn't want to live under the tyranny of a dictator who ran the only transgender group at that time. A few fun souls got together and won the best dress Halloween contest. When the announcer asked for the group's name, Adaline shouted "SGGURLS". With thunderous applause and cat calls, so it was. In SGGURLS we decided to make things right  We recognize that gender is a spectrum. Each person discovers and develops their own sexuality in their own time and space. Unlike the other group, there's no end destination. A CD is no less than a fully transition woman. Another big difference is that SGGURLS is open to friends and family. Admirers are welcomed.
 
 The Singapore trans scene is underground but vibrant. When I see Becca'Dbus with her Riot, I know the pink in lgbt is healthy. SGGURLS is seeing its millenial sistas step up and take over the reins.
The SGGURLS pioneers:

The millenials (minus me):


SGGURLS holds events every month for it's members. To date we've organized about 144 monthly meets, another 44 informal meets. Most the gurls meet regularly. Some of the gurls have been lifelong friends. We rotate venues.
A pic today with friends who I've known for more than ten years. I've not seen Vanessa since Changi. The picture below was taken when phones and cameras live separate lives. 5.5 megapixel was the top camera tech and the debate of film vs digital still raged.
A pic from yesterday:
 
 On Ladies Nite at Lulus, time was just a four letter word. We exchange news from night to morning. The live band packed up, the DJ took over, I am glad to be with my best friend and co-founder of SGGURLS. The photo below of Adaline and I was taken 12 years ago in Backstage Temple street.
This was taken yesterday at Lulus yesterday.
 

 SGGURLS events is open to all it's members,

SGGURLS is Singapore's largest trans forum open to all trans, friends and family.

SGGURLS on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641 SGGURLS on yahoo: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

SGGURLS Oct 2019 meet

Once a month, the gurls of Singapore meet up. It's a small slice in our lives where we remind each other that it's okay. No one chooses to be transgender as much as no one ask to to born. Since we're here, the best is of what we are, should the best of what we should be all at all times. Having friends helps especially those that encourage. Everyone lives a life at a time. No one lives the same life forever. We will be born many times, the card dealt will not of our choosing. We play the game until we learn whatever that is to be learnt.
 
In SGGURLS, we try to provide a positive environment where people are free to express themselves constructively and positively. SGGURLS's meets are announced on our FB forum. It's never a fix place. The venue is selected by the majority. If you're transgender and in Singapore at the time, please join us. The gurls are just like you. We're happy for admirers to join us as well. I am wearing a latex outfit sent to me by my Daddy from down under. So admirers, please come and don't be shy.

SGGURLS is Singapore's largest trans forum open to all trans, friends and family.

SGGURLS on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641 SGGURLS on yahoo: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

My mysterious benefactor

Three beautiful pieces of clothes and a pair of heels came for me.
I tried on two. Like gloves they were, from heels to clothes.

 I hope to meet my Henry Jones soon. I went with the outfit that made me feel like Serena, my power idol.
Every night is ladies night. There a few safe and favorite places in Singapore where the gurls hangout. I like class, awesome music. Lulus wins many of the places hands down.


 SGGURLS is the largest Singapore based transgender forum, https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/ It's for all transgenders, friends and family. Events are listed there.My mysterious benefactor

Doppelgänger and An Indecent opportunity

I hangout Lulus almost every Wednesday night. It's a classy place.The people that frequent there are super hot. They got a great band, the hot music, the shots and the sexy bods, It's too easy to blend into the space.

A hot couple checked me out. My best experiences has been with couples. The guy came up and whispered in my ear.  The indecent proposal would be a deed by daylight and if it was not for a slight problem. The lady was my doppelganger. Only the clothes and our race separated us.  I studied her like a student cramming for exams. She was a chapter that I thought I would never ever read. What are the odds of a genetic female of the same likeness? I did freak out. I smiled and walk away. After I smacked my head, only did curiousity and regret haunt my sleep. Maybe next week, they'll be there. I'll wear my lucky dress.
 
 Lulus is at Pan Pacific. They don't pay me to advertise their place. So go check out the place yourself. You'll like it. SGGURLs is Singapore's largest transgender forum. Answer the questions to join otherwise your ass will be smacked. Here's the link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/

SGGURLS August 2019 Gathering

Once a month SGGURLS organizes an outing. The venue changes.

SGGURLS is Singapore's largest trans forum open to all trans, friends and family.

SGGURLS on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641 SGGURLS on yahoo: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls