April 2017 Moderator Meet: the aftermath

It's our first moderator meeting after the departure of the old guards. An aftermath that spells start over. I am the old gurl in the group and the generation gap is big. I saw one of the gurls grow up and now living full time as a transwoman. SGGURLS began when the phone and camera were two different devices and phones were bricks. One of the mods commented that I still look the same as 10 years ago. (LOL jialat no progress). Key on the night's agenda were what had happened and what's the splinter group doing. Typical of me, I address the simple one first. What the splinter group is doing? I really don't know and don't care. There are many groups before and after the birth of SGGURLS. Here's a listing contemporary trans groups: http://oogachaga.com/congregaytion/website/detail/7 Groups are created when people gravitate to each other. When the chemistry is gone, people go their own way. That's just life. The more groups that exist in Singapore or SE Asia, the better it is for the LGBT community. Diversity means more options. SGGURLs event if organized by me will always be indoors, fully airconditioned, quiet places with enough ambient music. Of course, some of the members out grew my taste. The new football club does BBQ and beer guzzling events, Super for people who love sweat, outdoors and getting drunk. I am a lounge lizard and outdoors ...naaahhhh. Beer? Naaaahhhhh. Prior to football club was the Secret Agent Group of gurls who parties in high end clubs. LOL, ya I know about the not so secret agent club and their secret changing place in Parkway Center, right Agent K? There was also a group of gurls who set up an apartment in Paya Lebar. For a nominal fee, gurls can dress up, rent a locker to store their stuff. That was a good idea but with high rental in Singapore it's got to cater to a much wider audience to be commercially viable. SIS is an activist group set up artist Marla Bendini and talented designer Trish (designer of our SGGURLS) group. SIS champions transgender rights and represents us in PinkDot. My last mention was the group that organized the trans Pagent. Again great idea but after the first pagent, the organizers (most of are from SGGURLS) fizzled out. What happened in SGGURLS that caused the old guards to be ejected? There were 1 co-founder (Adaline) and 5 gurls ejected.  Co-founder Adaline was expelled, for two reasons and both related the SGGURL events she organized. The first was the BBQ event which she promoted with much fanfare, later said was cancelled but actually took place. The second was SGGURLS March meet which she had grandly advertised, on the day of the event abandoned and lied to me that she had attend to something urgent. Something urgent meant catastrophy that involved the emergency room. Being in some bar in Golden Mile with our new homies does not qualify as catastrophic. The other 5 gurls who engaged in cyber bullying were also expelled. These explusions can be temporary if the gurls acknowledge their mistake and don't repeat them. To err is human and to forgive is divine. As the founder of SGGURLS, the problem is squarely on my breasts. An absent leader is not much of a leader. This will continue to plague SGGURLS as work eats up my whole life. I do wish I can just up and leave to correct the biggest problem in my life: being born in the wrong gender. Unfortunately, SRS is not the end of the journey and thinking of the journey after next keeps me up at night toling away. Being just a pretty face won't pay the bills. This is third team running SGGURLS. Maybe third time is the charm and my successor is in plain sight.

SGGURLS March 2017 Meet: found new moderators and ISO more mods.

The last 24 hour was spicier than all the episodes of Tanglin. The Friday started by being stood up by my date. I waited like a goondoo until 8:00 pm. All he got to do was show up @ office, pick me up and go to SGGURLS gathering. But lucky for me I had another date. :-) Lo and Behold at the SGGURLs meet, I discovered that the organizer didn't even bother showing up. What's even worse was that she was my best friend and she lied to me. She went to another event organized by someone who salivates to own SGGURLS. The truth unravelled this morning when the big mouth who went to their party spilled the beans. Early 2016, before the fist fight of Cr and Es, Es brokered a meeting asking me to make Cr an owner of SGGURLS. I said I will think about it. The meeting was so stupid I never wrote anything about it. Can a drunkard really garner followers and be an influencer in SGGURLS? I laughed so hard that orange juice came out from my nose. But as life would have it, never underestimate a drunkard jackal. It outmanouvered me. Cr organized events to conincide with SGGURLS meet. Cr has got most of SGGURLS 2016 mods. I am a little sore that I got bitten by a cunning dog and it's done so insidiously that movie insicidious should take a page out of our politics. I can't be angry with the big Lady upstairs for cleaning my SGGURLS house for me. So I am in search of NEW mods for SGGURLS. I would eventually like to hand over the leadership reins to the right mod. The quality of SGGURLS mods:

• do what you say and say what you mean

I started SGGURLS when the internet was still a baby, the camera and phone were different devices. I posted events and I showed up even I was the only one. I recruited moderators that helped me formed the first nucleous of SGGURLS. I made some mistakes along the way by putting wrecks as moderators. The March event was organized by my best friend who turncoat and lied about it. And most smart people will smell bullshit a mile away. Yours was just in Golden mile.

• your real life is in order

For mods to really help other people, your life must in order. That means you need a stable job. You are socially responsible and you got street cred.

• mentally and emotionally stable

This criteria is best described by an example of what NOT to be. There's a toxic old fart who runs around town, bad mouthing everyone, bragging that she's a millionaire, claming to be a recovering gambling addict and offering free BJ to any guy desperate to have a lip around his shaft. This a person is so insecure that the only way she can feel good is by making everyone else feel like dirt including his loving wife who may on her last league of her life. Stultus, ut hoc adepto fulgur percussit per sapientiae SGGURLS forum http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls SGGURLS facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1567083706923641/ #singapore #lifestyle #transgender #tv #ts #cd

Thanks babe got my nails done.

Thanks Babe. The gift is behind me. Got my nails done and it comes off quite easily. Will KIK you next week.

Finally unwrapped my birthday and valentine gift…

…from Master Frank of Perth. 2 weeks ago I put on the PVC outfit without looking at the other bondage goodies. Life doesn’t wait for one to catch up. Today I had about one hour so I finally unwrapped the remaining gifts.Since I couldn’t find a photographer without benefits a selfie stick would have to do. These toys are exclusively for my benefactor and I so no second dips for anyone.

The thongs were so comfy and sexy.

There were other interesting bondage gears. Here they are laid up.

The locking penis gag and restraint systems are very interesting. The restraint system will make sense only when you’re here.

So here goes putting on the gears. First the latex. To get into the latex I had to wear panty hose first. The latex suit fit perfectly.

The bondage gears are simple with velcro and clips. It won’t hold an escape artist like me. So a simple shrimp / fetal position so that I can operate the selfie stick.

The penis gag did keep me quiet. I love it that it’s lockable. I just love chains and love. It’s a psychological thingy as I can escape from most rope bondage.

This is a closer look at the velcro shackles. The metal clip are quite flimsy and can break quite easily if I tug at it hard enough especially when I reach orgasm…:-P