Sunday, February 12, 2017

A shy Jack on Thursday and Jacked down on Friday

Just came back from my first date in 2017. A shy Jack and a first timer for a Thursday. Not exactly what I've hoped for. I guess techies are not exactly known for being flamboyant. Steve Jobs' women were Amanii (Apple, Mac, Newton, iPod, iPhone). I guess I just became another alphabet for sJ. Friday was suppoed to be Jacked up with great dates: a BDSM play session and seconds with sJ. BDSM became Be Dreaming and Sleeeping by Myself. sJ messaged me when I was half way through war of the worlds in my dream and I had my minions eating from the palm of my hands. They had to eat humans and spoit my world domination plans. I was so super tired when I woke up 10:00 am in the morning ( the next day). Managing those martians can be very tough. Next time I try ruling the Venusians. Transgender: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmasianetwork P.S. Not everyone is deviant in the group. I am the queen of elevated deviancies. :p

An incredible birthday...

FB has a 5000 limits on friends. I made two accounts and it looks like I may need three. Thank you so much for your well wishes privately and on my timeline: 297 on my timeline and 220 privately. Thank you thank you so much. My sister Adaline gave me a cuddly gift and a beautiful birthday cake. All my friends helped me celebrate my birthday. 20170119_125.jpg20170119_203.jpg20161223_055.jpg A big surprise came in from Master Frank of Perth. Probably becaue I am such a perv...hee hee.

How can you get three gurls to give a blow job?

When it's their birthdays. 20170119_013.jpg SGGURLS 2017 January meet started with the celebration of three gurls birthdays: Adaline, Nic, Regina 20170119_203.jpg 2017 started well. It's good to see our sistas once a month and to know that everyone is okay. Cake and wine on a Friday night with good friends. The best way to spend the night. A few admirers sent me a some angry notes last night during the meet which I realized only next day. I can't help you if dare not come in and meet the gurls. None of the SGGURLS moderators can help you forge courage. In our group the admirers who meet us become our friends. Friends have no labels. Whilst sex is the primary driver of why an admirer approaches us, being friends first is the key. Admirers are always welcome to SGGURLS meets. During the meets, don't expect us to answer your messages or come escort you unless you are the Sultan of Blink blink. I love my bear bear from Adaline.

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Friday, December 23, 2016

SGGURLS XMAS 2016 Meet

Xmas wouldn't be the same without your best friends.That is all one needs to remember the great times in 2016. A smile, a hug, a kiss. They are fragant petals in our lives that makes awesome memories.
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Adaline prepared all these gifts for our friends who attended our Xmas meet. Esther brought wine. The remaining surprise Xmas gifts are still with me. If you would like them, we may have a meet next Friday.
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The face of SGGURLS has changed over times but what has remained is friendship. Like any successful groups, there must be love. A mission. Passion. SGGURLS mission has been to create space and time for trans to come out and tell the world "I exist". Its not a difficult mission but one that is thankless. The moderators of SGGURLS don't get paid and often become a lightning rod for many difficult times especially when members wage war with each other. Other than the simple mission, there is no agenda.

From all of us in SGGURLS, merry Xxxmas and Happy 2017. May you be in love all the time.

Friday, December 2, 2016

Friday's Curry Gurl

Friday's Curry Gurl  
2016 has slipped by faster than a slippery eel. I was looking forward to seeing JL in my office but he had a client the last minute. I got my finger working ...on my computer... not diddling myself if that's what I got you thinking. Friday was shaping to be a bust with my gurlfriend Esther not feeling well from taking too much spiro. RC messaged me that he can pick me up from my place and Esther green light our meet in 8B BQ for F's meetup session. $5.00 drinks for ladies. That is the only reason Esther and I frequent F's meetup session. Red, White, Vodka w Soda, beer..for S$5.00.

I'm meeting RC for the first time. I thought RC was Ricky Chan. But he turned out better than Jacky Chan. RC is any ladies' dream: tall, suave, down to earth, easy to converse. Eventually we found ourselves in Dhoom. We couldn't go in the last time because it was reserved for Indian gents. LOL with RC, we got in.




The girls in Dhoom were super gorgeous. It was like a page out of Bollywood. The drinks however were super super EX. I fainted when I saw how much they charged for a jug of Tiger. I didn't take any pics for the night save this two.

Love,
Nic Lave
Singapore's first blond Ladyboy and proud of it.
SGGURLS, Singapore's transgender forum, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Friday, October 21, 2016

Ditch the Date, Hardrock, Orchard Tower and a face from the past

An admirer picked up from my home. This is the second "date" we've had. I said I wanted to go to City Plaza to shop but he kicked up a fuss and wanted to take me to somewhere secluded so that we can feel my legs. Well these are signs for me to ditch the date. He did drop me off City Plaza and there's where I ditched him for two pair of shorts @ S$10.00. Not bad. The lady was trying to sell me everything under her roof. She had some gems but most were very hideous looking clothes. She had a pair of super highheel for S$2.00 but it made me look like one of those china dolls.

I met up with Esther after my date fiasco. She was looking for a hard c*ck and though that she can find in hard rock through some dubious meetup group she signed up.

The place hasn't changed a bit. I haven't been to hardcck...oops...hardrock for 15 years.

The turn up for the meetup: a measely 4 pasley people, two women and two guys. The meetup was too lame. If I wanted to socialize, I would look for people with at least 2000 times more panache than these 4 yahoos nursing their drink looking forelornly at an empty dance floor. The place had a live band, packed and no place to sit. So i rescued Esther from a vapid night with 4 staled personalities.

We ended up in Orchard Towers. It's there I saw a very old face from my past, one of our original SGGURLS. She stared at me for a very long time. I didn't recognize her at first.  Finally, her identity came on me. It looked like she had gone through the washing machine, washed out all her male elements and boom came out as a girl. This explained some of the things she told me more than a decade ago. If she transitioned, she would disappear from our radar. And that she did.

Esther dressed quite respectably for the meetup.. For that reason, she.had no problem going in and out of pubs in Orchard Towers.
I got bounced from the lower level pubs that don't allow ladyboys. We ended up in Crazy Horse on the fourth floor. A drink starts at S$18.00. A definite rip off and the girls there was waiting their white night oh I mean angmo to buy their drinks. I was so thirsty I will buy my own drink. The girls ther were super sexy and I got the number of their breast surgeon. There were quite a few men checking us out.

We went to Harry's. I got bounced by as the bouncer told me straight off that no working girls allowed. :-O Hmmm...interesting... I kinda blended in with the rest of the working gurls in Orchard Tower too well. Esther liked Harry's as it was a definite place to pick up angmos. I know as I keep getting stupid Ang Mo walking right into me and staring into me with their silly grin. At least if you walk up to me, offered me a drink, I wouldn't be so annoyed. I now know the meaning of Ang Mo Kio (Kio = bridge). Ang Mo Kio probably built by some jiobu for stupid Ang Mo's who don't know how to walk. Leave it to cheeky Singaporeans. Harry's was defintely not a good place for me as the big size manager thought I just stumbled in from Orchard Tower to look for my next John and bounced me out.


Well Esther was sporting enough to leave with me. She was all settled in Harrys for their fish and chips.

I am not as much into these meetup groups as Esther. I guess maybe i am not looking for any partners. Just a place to hangout. I do like shopping and which gurl don't. If you like shopping, hit me up.


SGGURLS forum, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
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Meetup, Boat Quay and 2 dates

15 October 2016 @ 09:40 am
After many months of coaxing by Esther, I finally attended one of the Friday meetups meant for your working professional heterosexuals. I had to wear one of those cheezy tags with a green star strategically placed on my chest.

The whole meet felt more like a meat market with young ladies hopeful to find a future husband and socially inept geeks looking to score. The session wasn't as bad as I. I got both men and women checking me out in a lustful way. I guess it helps to dress like a cross between the girl next door and a pole dancer. So that makes me a double crossdresser.

Friday night I ended up with two dates. One with Esther and another with an extremely shy admirer who like soft MtF. I guess having a guy fetch me to the meetup and rubbing my legs, while I read off the GPS direction from my phone is a turnon.

This Friday deserved a penned-in as my life journey. Getting the know Esther made my journey interesting. I have shunned going to straight places and stuck within the pink belt. I guess that was my box. Esther operates out-of-the-box and I wasn't really enthusiastic about going to an event with 100 to 150 straight people. Though I didn't really bother networking with anyone there, for the first time I did really get to talk to Esther. I see her almost every day but we never really talked. But that night we talked about SGGURLS, her and life in general. She's one of those rare person that can visit a factory and figure out the entire operation down to the design. I guess maybe I am one of the few gurls in SGGURLS that can appreciate diversity. I met up with Shanica a while back and she asked me poignantly that is SGGURLS chinese oriented as the gurls tended to stick to themselves and spoke Mandarin. My answer is encapsulated in an old photo taken with a good friend of mine, Deanna. We both like BDSM and I have always engendered SGGURLS with a diverse DNA where we appreciate all spectrum of humanity and sexuality.

Anyways, it's about 2:00 am. I guess I am so tired all the time and as much as I enjoyed an interesting Friday night, I would just be as happy to laze at home and watch porn.
 
 
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