Saturday, June 3, 2023

A clean slate, wine and a blimp

 


10 SGD wine at Mami's
10 SGD wine at Mami's
Mami's is the name of the owner who also crossdress.
Mami's is the name of the owner who also crossdress.

10 sgd wine at Mami's and my vegan diet makes me bloat like a blimp. Maybe I go for non-alcoholic next time. 

Before the wine
Before the wine
After the wine with potential admins?
After the wine with potential admins?

SGGURLs have survived 15 years. Some of the calamities would have spelled the end of her. Yet here we are. The first disaster started with R. R had a volatile personality which inflamed almost all of our members. There was so much dissent when I made R one of the mods in our old yahoo group. 

SGGURLS admin
SGGURLS admin

Then there was J an amorous admirer who slept with many of the gurls in SGGURLS. The decision to kick J off the group caused a gaping rift. 

A photo shoot for our first SGGURLs 2010 calendar.
A photo shoot for our first SGGURLs 2010 calendar.

The last epic battle was about five years ago. E tried to wrest SGGURLS for her own benefit by showing off her wealth, paying free meals to get the gurls to change camp. E recruited a drunkard C. Between C and E, I lost SGGURLs and was kicked out from the yahoo forum. 

The SGGURLS admins from 10 years ago.
The SGGURLS admins from 10 years ago.

Recently I got wind that S wanted to form her own group and preferred to organize meets using her own banner. That prompted me to I cleaned up the group of admins. It's back to a small group that may not be ready to take over the reins. This meet is special. It's a clean slate to search for a new worthy team. There are only 3 prerequisites for a successful SGGURL admin. The first is the belief that SGGURLS (Singapore Gurls) are for all transgenders and not just a small group. Second SGGURLS meets are inclusive and form a great opportunity to network. There is no events to a paltry annual events for the gurls. Most the gurls just go out on their own. Meets are an opportunity to network. If the gurls want to hangout, post it on SGGURLS Facebook. Facebook excels facilities to blasts events be it small or big. Third is the belief that transgenderism is a spectrum where people in a journey of their own, travelling the spectrum. This belief strongly implies that all members of SGGURLs are accepted for who they are. 

The admins from 2021.
The admins from 2021.

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