Singapore: Lace 2 Lace Party Singapore, 14th December 2008. Our deepest apologies for those that came to this party. Our usual space on the third flo

Singapore: Lace 2 Lace Party

Singapore, 14th December 2008.

Our deepest apologies for those that came to this party. Our usual space on the third floor at Backstage were renovated and we were not informed ahead of time. We were at the balcony for the most part until 10:30pm, we got a table in the bar. There were several people who came earlier. Sorry to have missed you if you couldn't find us. The blonde mascot was late.

Without our usual space, there was no chance for us to strip down to our intimate wear. We should have renamed this party, wear your lace inside your clothes and keep your clothes on party. :-(

Plan B kicked in. Once we had our table, we commenced with the main event which was to celebrate Ivy's birthday. Ivy Sr. is one our lovely SGGURL moderator who we have had the pleasure of knowing more than a year ago. We still remembered Ivy Sr. was dress as a wicked witch with a Jaws head magic. She was in the original pic that graced our SGGURL's site when it first started which we took at MOX. It's hard to believe that the year had gone by so quickly.

We had a round of agave fire water (80 proof) on the house after the cake cutting. That was enough to loosen up everyone especially the resident land croc. Nic was busy trying to figure out the laces underneath everyone's clothes. See photo with a piece of thread still stuck in Nic's teeth when she took a chomp out of Trisha's bras strap.

We were in good spirits after the shots of tequila, we made our way to Cows & Coolies to meet up with Becky. There was some serious pool competition going on. Destinee tried her hand at pool. We were wondering if she was playing pool or just looking sexy.

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For more on Asia's alternative lifestyles, please visit us at:

transgender support and social sites: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz, http://groups.yahoo.com/bangkoktrans .

BDSM groups: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

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SGGURLS 8th moderator meeting: following a dream

SGGURLS 8th moderator meeting: following a dream
Singapore, 6th December 2008

The SGGURLS 8th Moderator meeting was a blast. The meeting was attended by a bunch of really fun loving gurls. It was heartwarming to see deepening relationships forming between the gurls. There were also some romances that had taken off. It was definitely more exciting than Cashmere Mafia and more intriguing than Ugly Betty. Is there a television series in the making? More than a few I wager. Unfortunately, most of the juicy stuff I can’t write in here. All I am allowed to say is that it sure beats watching Saturday night reruns on the telly. I got first class seat to the best show in our little corner of the world.
The meeting was graced by the lovely Mistress Christy. I was just blown away her grace and beauty. Her website and pictures don’t do her justice. She is really an incredible person: talented, gifted and yet so humble. I tried hinting of our informal gathering at DYMK as not to appear to blatant of the very rare treat. Mistress Christy shared with me the current developments of Bangkok’s ever evolving BDSM scene. She was also kind to share with me the underground SM scene in the rest of Asia as she is a widely sought after ProDomme who travels extensively.

In DYMK, there was an event generously sponsored by Aids for Action (AFA) Organization where anyone can test for HIV anonymously. The test is done via OraQuick rapid test where you just need to swab the inside of your mouth and wait for an hour for your results. SGGURLs support AFA. All the gurls and guests participated in the free test. For more on AFA, please see http://www.afa.org.sg/aboutafa.asp
After a very relaxed and fun time in DYMK, we popped over to Dixie’s at Mosque Street which is just next to Cows & Coolies. The bar was really fun. Most of the people knew the gurls. The gurls were up to their usual antics, singing Karaoke and playing pool. Our friends’ in Dixie had a blast trying out Joy’s mile tall high heel which ended up in an impromptu high heel dash around the pool table. This was eye candy for anyone with a foot fetish.

We would like to thank Benjamin and Marc of DYMK for making us feel at home.
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http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

SGGURLS' 1st ANNIVERSARY Bash

SGGURLS' 1st ANNIVERSARY Bash
Singapore, 14th November 2008.
It was a night where people from all walks of life joinned to celebrate diversity. Despite the earlier drizzle, participation was fantastic. The rain stopped just as the celebration got underway. We could not have asked for better timing. The weather cooled down nicely so that we could chill outside when things got too hot inside and the gurls did sizzle things up inside. The bungalow was gigantic. It had 7 giant bedrooms upstairs. One of the rooms was converted into a makeup station for our two very talented make-up artist.
The night was special. We had a very rare opportunity to celebrate three birthdays: Rebec, Hendrika and SGGURLS. The totally delectable cakes were specially chosen by Adaline for the birthday girl and gurls. The catered Indonesian food, wonderful cakes, fine wine and beer were only the starters for the great celebration. It was a also a night when the gurls and friends of SGGURLS took ownership of the club and made it their own. The moderators were asked to gather around for the cake cutting ceremony. Nic made a speech on behalf of the group saying that SGGURLS is a group not just for the transgendered, but a group for anyone who had ever been discriminated. The birthday wish for SGGURLS is to be a positive force to forster respect amongst people regardless of their gender, gender preferences, race, religion, creed and country. We were also very happy that the owner of MYGURLZ came all they way from KL to celebrate SGGURLS' birthday. She was happy to see a united transgender community in Singapore celebrating their friendship in mirth and with warmth.
After the cake cutting ceremony, the celebration went into overdrive. Kaila was the emcee for the night and a fine emcee she was. She whipped up the audience into a frenzy when the beautiful Destinee, sexy Ivy and delicious Trish performed their hearts out. Destinee did two song numbers. Trish sang 'Fever' and Ivy heated up things with very exotic dance.
And when everyone thought that the show as over, Joy brought out the ropes. Nic and Joy were like Betty Boo meets Betty Paige domina duo. They caught their naughty lollita and the birthday gurl. Before the gurls knew it, they were bound, gagged and tickled mercilessly for an hour. But this was all done in good fun of course.
A special thank you to Adaline, Kaila, Destinee, Trish, Ivy Jr., Deanna, Hendrika, Zeus, Bobby for making the celebration a success. And a big hug to all our wonderful friends who came and made the night a memorable one.
=======================================================================For more information on Asia's transgender social & support network, please visit:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://www.sgbutterfly.org/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans

A Saturday Night in Tocame

A Saturday Night in Tocame
Singapore, 8 November 2008

It had been a very long time since we visited our friends at Tocame. Tocame primarily caters to the lesbian crowd and it is not a wonder that we found the best looking women on the planet crowded in this little space. Its times like this that I am so glad that I am a dyke.

The lovely Mistress Shirley and Mistress Sally were gracious enough to drop by for a drink (not in any pics as requested). Our official photographer for the night was Patric (also not in any pics as requested). Cindy dropped by with lots of gifts for the Chalet. OMG the gurl is giving away a fortune of lovely dresses: silk 

dresses, designer cotton tops, etc. This gurl was so tempted to keep them for herself. Linda came out with an excellent suggestion to auction off the clothes and donate the money to charity. We'll most likely do as Linda recommended. I can think of a few deserving charities like the Children's Pocket Fund. We can 

have our event Chairwoman (miss Adaline) write a check on behalf of SGGURLS to two or three deserving charities.

After midnight, Joy showed us the ropes of having a good time. Once the genie was out of the bag, some of the gurls were quite tied up for the night. Trish was too enamored with the KTV system that she didn't notice some nice white ropes on her. :-P Or maybe she did but she just ignored the pest that was on bugged her.
We just hoped that we didn't embarass the TocaMe patrons too much. There were a few patrons that walked up to us and said 

that the ropes look like fun. They were wondering what happens next. Nic told them that 

they can take the packaged gurls back with them if they so desired. Our new friends smiled and winked at 

the gurls, absolutely delighted with such a naughty treat. ;-)

We like to thank our friends and the management at Tocame 

for the warm hospitality. For more information on TocaMe bar, please visit http://www.sal.org.sg/Lists/Membership%20Discounts%20and%20Privileges/DispForm.aspx?ID=213 or email tocame@juxtapose.com.sg
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To find more about Asia's alternative lifestyle, please visit us at:
Transgender social and support group:
Singapore - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Malaysia - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
Bangkok - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans
BDSM or D/s groups:
Singapore - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
SE Asia - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
China - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

Singapore: Halloween 2008

Singapore: Halloween 2008
Singapore, 31st Oct 2008, Friday

Thanks to our lovely gurls that Halloween 2008 beat sitting at 11pm watching Survivor on the telly. Our guests Veron & Dyana were dressed in the dopest meeeoooowww...Cat suit and Goth outfit that would make any straight male go berserk. They look waaay too good. Andy and Alex (AlexSG01) dropped by for a drink before running off to their next caper.
We had Rayne in her sexy Goth gear, Kaila in a hot leather chipao, Joy wearing a deliciously wicked she-devil costume, Trish looking like the hot young Tina Turner (I know she'll disagree), Shelia in a nice elegant dress, Destynee looking ravishing in her scrumptious lollita outfit, my luvly slut she-devil Adaline in a cosplay outfit, the shy demure Cindy wearing a kinky french maid costume, beautiful Andrea in a black elegant dress, Hendrika in a Thai university female outfit, and me da big COWgurl.
Backstage was packed tighter than a can of sardines. It looked like a mini UN gathering with representatives from all continents with schmoozing and giving each other friendly spanks on the butt. Given that this was the tail end of a work week, the turnout was quite good. The Backstage team did a good job in making the place look spooky unfortunately there were no ghouls or ghost in the place only hot bods on the prowl.
After Backstage, the group splintered to Cows&Coolies, Alley Bar atPeranakan Place and Thumper at Goodwood Park. Master Richard + partner, , Bobby + partner, were at Cows & Coolies with most of the gurls. There was a big goth party at Alley bar (http://community.livejournal.com/singaporegoths/) and of course SGDOMSUBS centennarian at Thumper. All in all Halloween 2008 amidst the economic downturn got my two thumps up.

SGGURLS 3rd Moderator's Meeting

SGGURLS 3rd Moderator's Meeting

Singapore, 12th October 2008

The SGGURLS moderators convened at DYMK bar at about 9pm+++. Some of the gurls were already there since 6pm as they attended Leona Lo's talk. Before the Moderator's meeting started a variety of topics were discussed. The most memorable were highlights from Leona Lo's inspirational talk about the challenges that a trans-gurl will face. Destynee said that the best part of the talk she liked was that a tgurl needs to be self-reliant and not hope for the knight in shining armor. There's no such person. Trish agreed and said that building up a means to achieve financial independence was a key to a successful pre and post transition.

The topic of purging came up during the discussion. A spot survey from the moderators showed that almost all the Mods (short for Moderators of SGGURLS) who were present that night had purged their fem personalities at least twice only to be defeated by a stronger resurgence from their fem side. Nic said that "we're born with a curse never to escape the need to be a woman." Trish however disagreed and said that it was not a 'curse' but a blessing. Trish summed it up best by saying that Trans people (MtF, FtM) are the only people with a unique understanding of what it means to be a man and a woman. All the Mods agreed that it's quite difficult if not impossible to escape from wanting to be that elusive girl / woman. This need is like the programming in salmons that compel them to swim upstream.

The Mods also discussed about how a pressing issue of harrassments of members and Mods in the SGGURLS forum. The Mods discussed the term 'harrassment'. Harrassment means to incessantly contact the gurls without any regard if the communication was not welcomed. We discussed about some specific cases that happened for the last two weeks. It was agreed that if the harrassers persist, then the Mods will take appropriate actions. The approach is to reason with them first. The banning of harrassers will be a last resort.

When Kaila & Joy finally arrived (10:30pm ), Trish called the meeting in order. The Mods meeting was chaired by Destynee and Kaila. Destynee briefed us the status of the arrangements. Kaila went through the agenda. Destynee gathered our decisions for the halal menu which made many of us hungry. If the menu sounds as good as the actual food, most of us can't wait to get their hand on the food. Nic and Destynee worked out the finance for the SGGURLS nite. We discovered that we were short of about S$200. The Mods brainstormed on how to cover the shoftfall. Smart Joy suggested that each of the Mods contributed an additional sum. The sum to be worked out. Ivy suggested that we also ask if some of the bars, etc. wanted to sponsor our SGGURLS nite. There were some items that still needed to be worked out particularly drivers and the drinks portion. Destynee suggested that the Mods bring 1-2 bottles of their favorite drinks. Nic suggested that maybe make it optional (but much appreciated) if participants would also bring a bottle of their favorite wine or liquoer.

The Mods also got to meet up with Angeline who posted her photos on the board recently. Kaila exchanges some tips for her on how to overcome her shyness. Most of us already think that Angeline is brave for joining the Mods meeting. After the meeting, the gurls adjourned to smoking heaven ("Cow&Coolies"). For non-smokers the place was smoking hell. But our friends in Cows&Coolies already very familiar with our group were fun. Their friendliness and craziness made up for the blured vision from the heavy smoke.

Special thanks to Rayne who was our official ("arrowed') photographer for the night.

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SGGURLS (a Singapore based social network group for tv,cd,ts): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

MYGURLZ (a Malaysian based social network group for tv,cd,ts): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz

DYMK bar: http://www.dymk.sg

Cows N Coolies: http://www.streetdirectory.com/businessfinder/company_detail.php?companyid=21564&branchid=8466

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The Ladies of the Ring party

The Ladies of the Ring party
Singapore, 20th September 2008.
The Ladies of the Ring party was a ruse to celebrate two of our wondeful friends' birthdays; Trish and Shirley. The celebration was the first of all sorts. A delicious cake for two beautiful and elegant ladies.
The outing was made memorable by Edwina's debut. She looked fantastic and totally passable. Most of us didn't recognised her when she stepped into our private party at Backstage.
To help us celebrate the two special friends' birthdays, we were joined by Zack, elegant Edwina, handsome man Daniel, beautiful Rose, Ada, Joy, Kaila, Ivy, Nic, delightful Andrea, Benaissa, Cindy, Destynee and Rayne. We cut the cake slightly after 11pm. The party started in earnest at midnight after a few drinks and some crazy modeling for camerawomen Rayne and Nic.
The gurls hopped over to +Plus for some KTV and pool followed by a spot of supper.
SGGURLS and her friends would like to thank David, Terrence and our friends at Backstage for making the celebration of our friends' birthdays wonderful and comfortable.
For more of our friendly social group, please join us at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Backstage Bar, http://www.backstagebar.moonfruit.com/