Celebrating the big FIVEZERO with a dear friend....

Celebrating the big FIVEZERO with a dear friend....
SINGAPORE, Thursday, 24th January 2008
2008 is turning to be an interesting year. The SGGURLS group is getting closer than ever attracting the hidden and often misunderstood community in Singapore. One of its founding members Adaline (or just Ada for short) celebrated her 50th birthday at "MOX" (http://www.mox.com.sg/) and her all-time favorite bar "Backstage" (http://www.lifestylewiki.com/Backstage_Bar). In attendance were: the birthday gurl Adaline, Joy, Ivy Jr, Cathy from KL, Joy, Tiffanie, Kaila, Hendrika (our co-conspirator), Rayne (our official camera woman) and Sham.
Adaline came to the party fooled by Catherine that there was going to be a BDSM party. Our lil kinky girl was very 'on' the ball for this kind of things and she came expecting to be tied, spanked, gagged, etc. When she was there she was scratching her head and kept asking, 'where the heck are the ropes?', 'Where the regular BDSM members?'. She was totally not expecting a birthday bash between her closest friends. Rayne, Hendrika and Kaila were lighting the cake in the background whilst Ada looked so disappointed that there no kinksters in sight. When the cake came, Ada was stunned and delighted at her birthday suprise...
At Backstage, our dear dear friend and host Terrence treated us with some very heavy dosage of alcohol. After a few 'yam seng' ...
....the gurls were doing some very interesting (definitely sexy) XXXXX things which I can't quite mention here to keep my PG13 rating.
Catherine rushed back to KL, the gurls continued to party on till almost 4am. Let's hope the MD are generous on MC for the gurls...yikes..
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Pub & Bar crawl in Singapore

Pub & Bar crawl in Singapore
Singapore, 12 Januanry 2008
Some of us gurls from the SGGURLS club attempted a Tanjong Pagar pub crawl on a Singaporean balmy weathered Saturday.

We started out from our favorite and usual hangout at Backstage. The itinerary was suppose to be 930pm Backstage, 1030 Cows&Coolies, 1130pm Xpose, 1230am Tocame, 0130am Grey Zone. We started out great at Backstage. The usual gearing up for a great party night with a bit of alcohol, catching up with one another, chatting about accessories (check out Kaila's 6" stilletos, Ivy's cool silk gloves, Ada's luvly chain-link belt), bantering with our good friends and making new friends at Backstage.
The gurls made the mistake of making the blonde-one the time keeper and its not a wonder that we lost track of time. We left Backstage about 1100pm. We tried to get to Cows & Coolies but not before the gurls spotted a clothing retail shop with lots of bargain that was still open. The irresistible combo of gurls, shopping, late nigh bargains and clothes make it easy to figure what happened next. The pub crawl turned into a late night shopping spree.
One hour vanished before the blonde-one finally dragged all the gurls screaming out from the shop. Not mentioning name one of the gurls spent quite a lot of $$$ on ONE nice dress and thereafter complained that she felt guilty.
We finally got to Cows & Coolies with a little trouble; too many shopping bags, Kaila's 6" stilletos, lost tourists asking for directions, old uncles making passes at us. LOL, sorry Janice. Now you know why we were so late. The culprits are caught on pics. One was still inside the store trying out clothes hence escaped my camera.
A couple of pool players tried to pick Ivy up at Cows & Coolies. LOL. They tricked her into playing pool while looking at her sexy behind when she bent over to make the shots. A few nice 'uncles' ...I mean men...came up and complimented the gurls. LOL the blonde-one looked pretty fierce so the men was a little daunted when they tried to pick the gurls up except for Ivy who was conned into singing karaoke and playing pool. She still beat the guys at pool.
We made the last stop at Tocame. The gurls were dead tired with sore feet and a little tipsy. This was the night of the pub crawling combined with late night shopping spree, teasing old uncles, making new friends, pool playing, KTV, checking out beautiful lesbians.
For more information on the SGGURLS, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Tags: Posted on 01/12/2008 7:51 PM

2007 countdown: HELLO 2008

2007 countdown: HELLO 2008 The countdown in our favorite bar was fantastic. Adaline bought a box of party popper where the confetti shoots out with a loud bang and some foam spray. Our bar hostesses provided more fun noise makers with lots of crazy drinking games to win free booze. The countdown was specatulary greeted with much gusto with the sound decibel exceeding the sonic boom.

I learned on the countdown party that our host were actually hostess and whew...were they pretty. Now I know why the SGGURLS felt so at home there. Our humble bar hostesses turned out to be extremely gorgeous and well established tgurls; pardon me, they prefer to be called female impersonators.

We had quite few rounds of tequila & vodka shots so much so that in the drinking competition we lost slurping down a jug of beer by three seconds.
Singapore tv/ts/cd group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

The last Singapore BDSM meet of 2007

The last Singapore BDSM meet of 2007

We broke chairs, flogged bottoms, tied hands, and ...

.... put slaves in their place with ropes.
Thanks to Sir Alex, Mistress Nicole, slave ada, sub sheila, sub jack, slave dickson, shy rayne and our guest for making the last SGDOMSUBS meet of 2007.

Singapore BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
China BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmchinanetwork
Singapore transgender: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Singapore: Xmas party with the Santarinas of Sggurls

Singapore: Xmas party with the Santarinas of Sggurls
Singapore, 22 Dec 2007
'Tis was a hot steamy X'mas celebration in our cozy favorite bar. The gurls looked so lovely and very festive. They sure did look like the sexy Santarinas that the made the patrons at Backstage go goo goo ga ga over. We were very lucky to be graced by two members of the SGDOMSUBS group, Master Mark (kamerad_eks) and slave dickson. The gifts started stacking up as time advanced quickly from 9:30 pm into midnight. Our gurls and friends started to fill the bar.
The gift exchange was ...er...too formal? LOL, this was the comment from Kaila the gurl with the sexiest and longest legs in Singapore. In actuality, after a few rounds of alcohol, no one knew what they were doing.

The party really started to pick up after 2:00 pm. With some encouragement from our friends at Backstage Bar and a little bit more alcohol to loosen up everyone, the gurls started getting kinky and were oozing out seductiveness from their pores.
We got to .......become the Domme Santarina demanding to be worshipped , ...practice our scarf Bondage on Cindy,

....witness a little naughty lez play, ...engage in lots of spanking fun,

....and finally getting a little shagging.

'Tis was a night to remember. Merry Christmas and a happy new year.
luv,

Singapore BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
Singapore Trangender / CD group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
China BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmchinanetwork

Singapore BDSM and tgurls outing: Tattoo party - marking Your property

Singapore BDSM and tgurls outing: Tattoo party - marking Your property
SingaporeSaturday-Sunday, 15-16th December 2007

Life would be ever so b&b (bland and boring) without spice.

The spice of this weekend is the tattoo party where the Dominant chooses a temporary tattoo and the slave has to wear it for a specified duration. Though the tattoo is temporary and the duration ranges from a few hours to a few days, the feeling that the Dominant and slave share is very erotic and intimate. BDSM is not always about just tying people up and spanking them silly. 80% of BDSM is in the mind which happens to be the largest sex organ of homosapiens.

The slave sometimes gets to choose the location of where the Dominant will place the tattoo. This discretion and generosity depends from on Dominant to the other. Some Dominant chooses the location of the tattoo which hopefully is not on the slave's forehead.
Adaline our webmistress for the SGGURLS group picked some of the most lovely tattoos. The design ranged from flower motifs to some very extravagant oriental dragon pattern. My personal favorites were the dragon and the scorpion. One on each side of my cleavage.

Master Alex our resident bondage expert from SGDOMSUBS brought lots of ropes and toys. Our voluteer / slaves were literally tied up for hours or until the cried for mercy. In attendance of the fabulous tattoo party were Master Warren with slave susan, Master John Lestat (SGDOMSUBS founder) with slave stacy, the two lovely Ivys, webmistress / slave adaline, Kaila, sWitch Ken and finally Nicole.

Our gracious host in Backstage bar (http://www.utopia-asia.com/singbars.htm) made us feel at home. Ambience, friendliness, space for us to have fun, discreet location, and little exclusivity makes this bar the perfect choice for us. The choice of venue for our parties and meets may not be that obvious to outsiders since we still want to be discreet.

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Singapore BDSM group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
Singapore tgurls group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
China BDSM group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmchinanetwork

The nexus of a paradox: a slave & a MISTRESS
To be a Domme or a slave. To be a man or a woman. This is the paradox that i live in and a fine line that i ride. It is fun and with that I gain so much insight into the mind of both worlds. So in this grey kinky world of BDSM (Bondage & Dungeon, Domination & Submission, Sado-Masochism), i can offer some insight into the world of a Dominant and the world of a slave.

As a Domme

I don't like one liners like 'hey Mistress come twist my nipple or come whip my butt.' One liners earn a quick trip to my iggy bin. I couldn't be bothered to read stupid slaves who can't even be bothered to at least sound like a mutt. I have met half wit slaves and I have yet to find one that can meet my standards. A recent slave in Singapore approach me and beg me to his Mistress. This pathetic worm said that he could take pain. Two swats from my paddle and this slave cried for mercy. What a waste of my time... I am not desperate for slaves. I have more than I can handle. Most literature points that for every 100 subs, there is one Domme. So you can imagine, Dommes are spoilt for choices. I dislike slaves that are disloyal, un-timely, and put my desires above theirs. A slave is a slave and they are meant to serve me. A slave must TRUST Me wholeheartedly as their Mistress and that I will bring no harm to them. they should love me whole heartedly. As a Mistress, the relationship is one that is unequal.

As a slave
i will serve my Mistress with all my heart. Her needs are always above mine. Her satisfaction is my creed. i will tell Her honestly my limitations and try my best to exceed Her expectations. i will finish all assignments given to me by my Mistress without questioning. i will complete my tasks in a timely manner, with no excuses and with total devotion.

For more information: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM