Singapore: Lace 2 Lace Party Singapore, 14th December 2008. Our deepest apologies for those that came to this party. Our usual space on the third flo

Singapore: Lace 2 Lace Party

Singapore, 14th December 2008.

Our deepest apologies for those that came to this party. Our usual space on the third floor at Backstage were renovated and we were not informed ahead of time. We were at the balcony for the most part until 10:30pm, we got a table in the bar. There were several people who came earlier. Sorry to have missed you if you couldn't find us. The blonde mascot was late.

Without our usual space, there was no chance for us to strip down to our intimate wear. We should have renamed this party, wear your lace inside your clothes and keep your clothes on party. :-(

Plan B kicked in. Once we had our table, we commenced with the main event which was to celebrate Ivy's birthday. Ivy Sr. is one our lovely SGGURL moderator who we have had the pleasure of knowing more than a year ago. We still remembered Ivy Sr. was dress as a wicked witch with a Jaws head magic. She was in the original pic that graced our SGGURL's site when it first started which we took at MOX. It's hard to believe that the year had gone by so quickly.

We had a round of agave fire water (80 proof) on the house after the cake cutting. That was enough to loosen up everyone especially the resident land croc. Nic was busy trying to figure out the laces underneath everyone's clothes. See photo with a piece of thread still stuck in Nic's teeth when she took a chomp out of Trisha's bras strap.

We were in good spirits after the shots of tequila, we made our way to Cows & Coolies to meet up with Becky. There was some serious pool competition going on. Destinee tried her hand at pool. We were wondering if she was playing pool or just looking sexy.

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For more on Asia's alternative lifestyles, please visit us at:

transgender support and social sites: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz, http://groups.yahoo.com/bangkoktrans .

BDSM groups: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

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SGGURLS 8th moderator meeting: following a dream

SGGURLS 8th moderator meeting: following a dream
Singapore, 6th December 2008

The SGGURLS 8th Moderator meeting was a blast. The meeting was attended by a bunch of really fun loving gurls. It was heartwarming to see deepening relationships forming between the gurls. There were also some romances that had taken off. It was definitely more exciting than Cashmere Mafia and more intriguing than Ugly Betty. Is there a television series in the making? More than a few I wager. Unfortunately, most of the juicy stuff I can’t write in here. All I am allowed to say is that it sure beats watching Saturday night reruns on the telly. I got first class seat to the best show in our little corner of the world.
The meeting was graced by the lovely Mistress Christy. I was just blown away her grace and beauty. Her website and pictures don’t do her justice. She is really an incredible person: talented, gifted and yet so humble. I tried hinting of our informal gathering at DYMK as not to appear to blatant of the very rare treat. Mistress Christy shared with me the current developments of Bangkok’s ever evolving BDSM scene. She was also kind to share with me the underground SM scene in the rest of Asia as she is a widely sought after ProDomme who travels extensively.

In DYMK, there was an event generously sponsored by Aids for Action (AFA) Organization where anyone can test for HIV anonymously. The test is done via OraQuick rapid test where you just need to swab the inside of your mouth and wait for an hour for your results. SGGURLs support AFA. All the gurls and guests participated in the free test. For more on AFA, please see http://www.afa.org.sg/aboutafa.asp
After a very relaxed and fun time in DYMK, we popped over to Dixie’s at Mosque Street which is just next to Cows & Coolies. The bar was really fun. Most of the people knew the gurls. The gurls were up to their usual antics, singing Karaoke and playing pool. Our friends’ in Dixie had a blast trying out Joy’s mile tall high heel which ended up in an impromptu high heel dash around the pool table. This was eye candy for anyone with a foot fetish.

We would like to thank Benjamin and Marc of DYMK for making us feel at home.
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For more information of our groups, please visit us at
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

SGGURLS' 1st ANNIVERSARY Bash

SGGURLS' 1st ANNIVERSARY Bash
Singapore, 14th November 2008.
It was a night where people from all walks of life joinned to celebrate diversity. Despite the earlier drizzle, participation was fantastic. The rain stopped just as the celebration got underway. We could not have asked for better timing. The weather cooled down nicely so that we could chill outside when things got too hot inside and the gurls did sizzle things up inside. The bungalow was gigantic. It had 7 giant bedrooms upstairs. One of the rooms was converted into a makeup station for our two very talented make-up artist.
The night was special. We had a very rare opportunity to celebrate three birthdays: Rebec, Hendrika and SGGURLS. The totally delectable cakes were specially chosen by Adaline for the birthday girl and gurls. The catered Indonesian food, wonderful cakes, fine wine and beer were only the starters for the great celebration. It was a also a night when the gurls and friends of SGGURLS took ownership of the club and made it their own. The moderators were asked to gather around for the cake cutting ceremony. Nic made a speech on behalf of the group saying that SGGURLS is a group not just for the transgendered, but a group for anyone who had ever been discriminated. The birthday wish for SGGURLS is to be a positive force to forster respect amongst people regardless of their gender, gender preferences, race, religion, creed and country. We were also very happy that the owner of MYGURLZ came all they way from KL to celebrate SGGURLS' birthday. She was happy to see a united transgender community in Singapore celebrating their friendship in mirth and with warmth.
After the cake cutting ceremony, the celebration went into overdrive. Kaila was the emcee for the night and a fine emcee she was. She whipped up the audience into a frenzy when the beautiful Destinee, sexy Ivy and delicious Trish performed their hearts out. Destinee did two song numbers. Trish sang 'Fever' and Ivy heated up things with very exotic dance.
And when everyone thought that the show as over, Joy brought out the ropes. Nic and Joy were like Betty Boo meets Betty Paige domina duo. They caught their naughty lollita and the birthday gurl. Before the gurls knew it, they were bound, gagged and tickled mercilessly for an hour. But this was all done in good fun of course.
A special thank you to Adaline, Kaila, Destinee, Trish, Ivy Jr., Deanna, Hendrika, Zeus, Bobby for making the celebration a success. And a big hug to all our wonderful friends who came and made the night a memorable one.
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http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://www.sgbutterfly.org/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans

A Saturday Night in Tocame

A Saturday Night in Tocame
Singapore, 8 November 2008

It had been a very long time since we visited our friends at Tocame. Tocame primarily caters to the lesbian crowd and it is not a wonder that we found the best looking women on the planet crowded in this little space. Its times like this that I am so glad that I am a dyke.

The lovely Mistress Shirley and Mistress Sally were gracious enough to drop by for a drink (not in any pics as requested). Our official photographer for the night was Patric (also not in any pics as requested). Cindy dropped by with lots of gifts for the Chalet. OMG the gurl is giving away a fortune of lovely dresses: silk 

dresses, designer cotton tops, etc. This gurl was so tempted to keep them for herself. Linda came out with an excellent suggestion to auction off the clothes and donate the money to charity. We'll most likely do as Linda recommended. I can think of a few deserving charities like the Children's Pocket Fund. We can 

have our event Chairwoman (miss Adaline) write a check on behalf of SGGURLS to two or three deserving charities.

After midnight, Joy showed us the ropes of having a good time. Once the genie was out of the bag, some of the gurls were quite tied up for the night. Trish was too enamored with the KTV system that she didn't notice some nice white ropes on her. :-P Or maybe she did but she just ignored the pest that was on bugged her.
We just hoped that we didn't embarass the TocaMe patrons too much. There were a few patrons that walked up to us and said 

that the ropes look like fun. They were wondering what happens next. Nic told them that 

they can take the packaged gurls back with them if they so desired. Our new friends smiled and winked at 

the gurls, absolutely delighted with such a naughty treat. ;-)

We like to thank our friends and the management at Tocame 

for the warm hospitality. For more information on TocaMe bar, please visit http://www.sal.org.sg/Lists/Membership%20Discounts%20and%20Privileges/DispForm.aspx?ID=213 or email tocame@juxtapose.com.sg
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To find more about Asia's alternative lifestyle, please visit us at:
Transgender social and support group:
Singapore - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Malaysia - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
Bangkok - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans
BDSM or D/s groups:
Singapore - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
SE Asia - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
China - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

Singapore: Halloween 2008

Singapore: Halloween 2008
Singapore, 31st Oct 2008, Friday

Thanks to our lovely gurls that Halloween 2008 beat sitting at 11pm watching Survivor on the telly. Our guests Veron & Dyana were dressed in the dopest meeeoooowww...Cat suit and Goth outfit that would make any straight male go berserk. They look waaay too good. Andy and Alex (AlexSG01) dropped by for a drink before running off to their next caper.
We had Rayne in her sexy Goth gear, Kaila in a hot leather chipao, Joy wearing a deliciously wicked she-devil costume, Trish looking like the hot young Tina Turner (I know she'll disagree), Shelia in a nice elegant dress, Destynee looking ravishing in her scrumptious lollita outfit, my luvly slut she-devil Adaline in a cosplay outfit, the shy demure Cindy wearing a kinky french maid costume, beautiful Andrea in a black elegant dress, Hendrika in a Thai university female outfit, and me da big COWgurl.
Backstage was packed tighter than a can of sardines. It looked like a mini UN gathering with representatives from all continents with schmoozing and giving each other friendly spanks on the butt. Given that this was the tail end of a work week, the turnout was quite good. The Backstage team did a good job in making the place look spooky unfortunately there were no ghouls or ghost in the place only hot bods on the prowl.
After Backstage, the group splintered to Cows&Coolies, Alley Bar atPeranakan Place and Thumper at Goodwood Park. Master Richard + partner, , Bobby + partner, were at Cows & Coolies with most of the gurls. There was a big goth party at Alley bar (http://community.livejournal.com/singaporegoths/) and of course SGDOMSUBS centennarian at Thumper. All in all Halloween 2008 amidst the economic downturn got my two thumps up.

SGGURLS 3rd Moderator's Meeting

SGGURLS 3rd Moderator's Meeting

Singapore, 12th October 2008

The SGGURLS moderators convened at DYMK bar at about 9pm+++. Some of the gurls were already there since 6pm as they attended Leona Lo's talk. Before the Moderator's meeting started a variety of topics were discussed. The most memorable were highlights from Leona Lo's inspirational talk about the challenges that a trans-gurl will face. Destynee said that the best part of the talk she liked was that a tgurl needs to be self-reliant and not hope for the knight in shining armor. There's no such person. Trish agreed and said that building up a means to achieve financial independence was a key to a successful pre and post transition.

The topic of purging came up during the discussion. A spot survey from the moderators showed that almost all the Mods (short for Moderators of SGGURLS) who were present that night had purged their fem personalities at least twice only to be defeated by a stronger resurgence from their fem side. Nic said that "we're born with a curse never to escape the need to be a woman." Trish however disagreed and said that it was not a 'curse' but a blessing. Trish summed it up best by saying that Trans people (MtF, FtM) are the only people with a unique understanding of what it means to be a man and a woman. All the Mods agreed that it's quite difficult if not impossible to escape from wanting to be that elusive girl / woman. This need is like the programming in salmons that compel them to swim upstream.

The Mods also discussed about how a pressing issue of harrassments of members and Mods in the SGGURLS forum. The Mods discussed the term 'harrassment'. Harrassment means to incessantly contact the gurls without any regard if the communication was not welcomed. We discussed about some specific cases that happened for the last two weeks. It was agreed that if the harrassers persist, then the Mods will take appropriate actions. The approach is to reason with them first. The banning of harrassers will be a last resort.

When Kaila & Joy finally arrived (10:30pm ), Trish called the meeting in order. The Mods meeting was chaired by Destynee and Kaila. Destynee briefed us the status of the arrangements. Kaila went through the agenda. Destynee gathered our decisions for the halal menu which made many of us hungry. If the menu sounds as good as the actual food, most of us can't wait to get their hand on the food. Nic and Destynee worked out the finance for the SGGURLS nite. We discovered that we were short of about S$200. The Mods brainstormed on how to cover the shoftfall. Smart Joy suggested that each of the Mods contributed an additional sum. The sum to be worked out. Ivy suggested that we also ask if some of the bars, etc. wanted to sponsor our SGGURLS nite. There were some items that still needed to be worked out particularly drivers and the drinks portion. Destynee suggested that the Mods bring 1-2 bottles of their favorite drinks. Nic suggested that maybe make it optional (but much appreciated) if participants would also bring a bottle of their favorite wine or liquoer.

The Mods also got to meet up with Angeline who posted her photos on the board recently. Kaila exchanges some tips for her on how to overcome her shyness. Most of us already think that Angeline is brave for joining the Mods meeting. After the meeting, the gurls adjourned to smoking heaven ("Cow&Coolies"). For non-smokers the place was smoking hell. But our friends in Cows&Coolies already very familiar with our group were fun. Their friendliness and craziness made up for the blured vision from the heavy smoke.

Special thanks to Rayne who was our official ("arrowed') photographer for the night.

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SGGURLS (a Singapore based social network group for tv,cd,ts): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

MYGURLZ (a Malaysian based social network group for tv,cd,ts): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz

DYMK bar: http://www.dymk.sg

Cows N Coolies: http://www.streetdirectory.com/businessfinder/company_detail.php?companyid=21564&branchid=8466

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The Ladies of the Ring party

The Ladies of the Ring party
Singapore, 20th September 2008.
The Ladies of the Ring party was a ruse to celebrate two of our wondeful friends' birthdays; Trish and Shirley. The celebration was the first of all sorts. A delicious cake for two beautiful and elegant ladies.
The outing was made memorable by Edwina's debut. She looked fantastic and totally passable. Most of us didn't recognised her when she stepped into our private party at Backstage.
To help us celebrate the two special friends' birthdays, we were joined by Zack, elegant Edwina, handsome man Daniel, beautiful Rose, Ada, Joy, Kaila, Ivy, Nic, delightful Andrea, Benaissa, Cindy, Destynee and Rayne. We cut the cake slightly after 11pm. The party started in earnest at midnight after a few drinks and some crazy modeling for camerawomen Rayne and Nic.
The gurls hopped over to +Plus for some KTV and pool followed by a spot of supper.
SGGURLS and her friends would like to thank David, Terrence and our friends at Backstage for making the celebration of our friends' birthdays wonderful and comfortable.
For more of our friendly social group, please join us at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
Backstage Bar, http://www.backstagebar.moonfruit.com/

Singapore: AUGUST BDSM Munch

Singapore: AUGUST BDSM Munch
Singapore, 28 August 2008
If you have a choice to watch bad TV on a Thursday night or come to a SM munch, which would it be for you?
28 people chose the latter (pictures not posted as requested). There were quite a few newbies in this meet. We had to make sure that they were not in the wrong place. There were two groups of very nice looking people and a sexy couple sitting quietly in one corner. Nicole gave them a quiz: does a BDSM meet stand for "Business Development Sales Marketing" meet, "Big Daddy Small Mama" meet, or "Bondage Discipline Sado Masochism"? Luckily, the newbies answered correctly. They were introduced to several toys two of which were from auction from Mistress Cyra. Most of everyone could not guess the use of the hot-icy stimulator. A few thought it was a magic wand. Most of the newbies thought the penis gag was something they stick in their other holes....OO000oooooh oh. Nic naughtily introduced the crop and her version of the 'friendship' bracelet to the newbies. They had loads of fun with the toys.
We had a good representation of moderators who kept the party safe, sane, legal and fun. Our dear founders MJ, Sir Alex, Hendrik, Mistress Karen, and the team from SGGURLS were there to make sure that people didn't feel bored. After a few drinks, people started getting a little more relaxed; the mingling started. Some of the slaves got a little naughty raring the Dominants to get a go at them. That night we had Master R & slave, Master Richard & His haarem (no kidding, Master Richard brought his whole haarem), Master Brian & slave, Master John & slave nina, Master Alex & haarem, Hendrik & plenty of his Sales Marketing friends, andy, sWitch Dyna, and many more people whose names escape me at the moment.
The night was filled with bondage, spanking, caning, teasing, and merri-making. Since DYMK closes at midnight, all the kinksters had to leave the magic kingdom. See you all again on the last Thursday of next month.
We would like to thank the DYMK team and management for supporting SM meets.
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DYMK bar: http://www.dymk.sg/
Singapore BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
SE Asia BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
China BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

Singapore: GOTH nite review

Singapore: GOTH nite review

Singapore, Sat,23 Aug, 2008
Goth Nite at Backstage was awesome. The girls, gurls and guys looked fabulous in BLACK, leather and PVC. Besides looking just wonderfully vamp, we watched the goofie film, JACKASS and TWOWONGFOO in our little cozy bar. It was a treat to have Mel, Den, and Dyana with us. A few of the gurls got quite a few admirers blowing cat calls and coming up to them for a kiss.

Destynee actually wanted a few of the gurls to rehearse for SGGURLS nite. Unfortunately, with JACKASS 2 on the plasma scree, everyone became riveted with the 'old man ball' gag. Soon the dance rehearsal was forgotten. The blonde one may be off the hook, since Terrence assessed that she can't really dance. Preparing for GOTH night was fun. The hardest thing was hunting for BLACK lipstick. Most of the conventional make up brands don't carry black. They do carry dark red, but that's not the same as the black that makes your blood scream sexy.
Once the crowd thinned down a bit in Backstage, the gurls were up to their SM shenanigans. Joy wanted to bring the ropes out and Adaline was game; but everyone just looked too shag to be the Domme. After Backstage, supper at Lao Pa Sat was in order. Woo hoo...good food and more booze.
We want to thank the management and team of Backstage bar and our sista Rayne for taking all the wonderful pictures.
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Backstage bar: http://www.backstagebar.moonfruit.com/
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ASIA SM societies:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
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transgender societies:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz

Re: Handbag Nite: a nite for TV+CD's, 8/9/2008, 9:30 pm

Re: Handbag Nite: a nite for TV+CD's, 8/9/2008, 9:30 pm
SINGAPORE, 9th AUGUST 2008.
Saturday was Singapore's 43rd birthday and the gurls of SGGURLS celebrated in style. We all met up at eBAR just two doors down from Taboo. eBAR was so comfortable and private that the gurls got stuck there for the longest time. When we finally decide to make a move to Taboo, it was kind of late. The cover charge of 20sgd was that appealing. I guess the gurls were already spoilt in places like Backstage, +Plus, DYMK ("the new MOX"), Cows&Coolies, TocaME and eBAR where there are no cover charge.
After standing outside Taboo for awhile the gurls decided to go to Cows&Coolies. It had been awhile since we all went there. The owners of the establishment recognized us and immediately made us feel comfortable. We got the back nice little alcove at the back of the bar. We met some really cool friends in the bar. Rebecca, one of the regulars at Cows&Coolies, aced all our best pool players. Yikes! One after another, the gurls fell to the king of the pool table.
The gurls sang their songs, drank and chatted to their hearts content. The bar closed at 3:00 AM or was it at 2:00 AM? Sorry I can't remember. Maybe its not a good idea to get the dumb blonde to write the review. LMAO. Cows&Coolies is a mix bar catering mostly to the lgbt crowd. There were some knockouts in Cows & Coolies last night unfortunately they didn't want their pictures taken. Ada and Nic scared the patrons at Cows&Coolies with their SM antics. That would leave a lasting impression. Rebecca was a bit squemish when spanking Ada's butt but she warmed up nicely at the end. Kaila a little tired and still sore from being trounced in pool, wanted to spank Rebecca. LOL I can't write their comments in here. Let's just say that revenge is best served with a paddle in the rump. :-P
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Singapore transgender society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Singapore: Hungry Ghost Nite with the Gurls

Singapore: Hungry Ghost Nite with the Gurls
Singapore, 2nd August 2008
Zhong Yuan Jie 中元节 is when the gates of Hades opens up once a year for ghosts to wander our world. This is the Chinese equivalent of Halloween. The gurls love halloween. That is when most of us met for the first time last year. It was love at first sight. We have been having fun for 10 months. And in two more months, 1 year had quickly elapsed. Fun and time seems to have an inverse relationsip. The more fun one has, the faster time seems to disappear. The gurls went to +PLUS bar to discuss the SGGURLS anniversary. +PLUS management was very supportive of our gurls and generously gave us our own cozy space that came with lots of fluffy pillows. They really have a way into the gurls' hearts. We also had a great offer of $50 for a bucket of 5 barcardis which were perfect for flavor, low alcohol for those who drove (4.2%), and low calories to boot. The gurls easily guzzled down 3 buckets while studying's Adaline really impressive program for the two day celebration of our SGGURL anniversary. The program really reflected our diversity. We are expecting quite a few of our sisters from overseas to come join the celebration. After a very exhilirating discussion in a very noisy bar...:-P, there was some more boozing, some incorrigible chain smoking, some KTV-ing, more boozing, more smoking, some comparison of fashion especially the exquisite 6" heels that some of the gurls wore, exchanging of notes on hormone treatment, make up tips, and the recent IPL offer from Allure. We had a great time at +PLUS. Ray, Aaron + Crew made us feel at home eventhough the bar was solidly packed. Our pool aces didn't even have their turn on the pool table.
Deanna dropped by for the discussion but she had to leave early. At about 12:30 am, Destynee, Adaline, Trish, Cindy, Ivy, Joy, Kaila, Rayne, Edwina, Nic nip over to say 'hi' to our favorite friends at Backstage. We got to watch "Love in the time of Cholera". Wow! Talk about a fanstastic romance movie.
+Plus Bar: http://www.utopia-asia.com/singbars.htm
Backstage Bar: http://http://www.backstagebar.moonfruit.com/
Links to SGGURLS + associated sites:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mygurlz
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bangkoktrans

Singapore: July BDSM Munch

Singapore: July BDSM Munch
Singapore, 31st July - 1st August 2008
We had our meet for the first time in DYMK bar. Since it was the bar's second day after its opening, the bar was still relatively unknown and it afforded a lot of privacy. There were close to 30 members (pics not shown as requested) that showed up coming and going at different times during the munch. The participants for the meet were made out of an even mix of men, women and tgurls (10:10:10) where there were more sWitches than subs or Dominants. In this meet, the majority of the SM'ers had at least 5 years of experience in various aspects of their kink. There were quite a few new faces that night and some old faces that we thought had dropped off at the edge of the world. We were also very glad to see the new faces from our last meet that attended their second meet. It was very gratifying to hear that they enjoyed this meet as much as the previous one. Master Richard who attended our meet for the first time said, "I almost gave up on meeting true kinksters in Singapore. I have been on Collarme for three years and I am fedup. Tonight gave me some hope. It's nice to see that there's at least an underground SM scene."
We were all anxiously awaiting for our century year old founder (MJ) to show but when when DYMK gave us the boot at midnight, our grand old Master still hadn't shown up. He must have had a bout of alzheimer or forgot where he left his walker again. The meet was quite casual until Master Alex brought out his ropes. All the gorgeous shy slaves scurried away and hid at the back corner of the bar while Nic went hunting for victims ..ahem...models. We found three brave models to endure tight bondage, Mistress Karen's tickling come spanking, Nic's riding crop and wooden hair brush, Master Alex's whips, riding crops, etc. It was bondage mayhem. The bar closed at midnight otherwise the meet would have gone on till much later.
On behalf of our Singapore kinksters and some of our friends from overseas, we like to thank the DYMK management for being supportive of our BDSM event.
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BDSM doesn't mean "Barnie doing SM". It is an acronmy for "Bondage, Domination (or also Dungeon), Sado - Masochism"; "Bondage, Dominant/submissive & masochism". BDSM should always be consensual (both parties agree), sane and safe.
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For more information on BDSM, please click on the following BDSM society's link: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork, http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork


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Wig Me, Whip Me & Kiss Me

Wig Me, Whip Me & Kiss Me
Singapore, 19-20 July 2008
The SGGURLS outing keeps getting better and better. As we get to know the regulars at bars like MOX (already closed down), TocaMe, Backstage, Cows & Coolies, and now +plus, the gurls are becoming quite comfortable and are having fun interacting with our new friends. The management of the bars are also very friendly and supportive to our outings especially when they realized that we're just a bunch of fun loving gurls out to socialize.
We started out at TocaMe where we had a fun wig sale. We were not the only one trying out the wigs, it seems like the whole bar caught on with our passion for wigs. After a lot of fun messing around with the hairpieces, we settled down do catch up on each other's lives, a little gossiping, some boozing, some KTV, and some smokes. A few of the gurls were so passable that even our lesbian friends (genetic girls) had a hard time telling if the gurls were girls. This was really a confident booster for a few of our gurls in the group. And let me tell you this, our group of lesbian friends were amazingly beautiful. WOWZERS!!! While the gurls were busy chatting, Nic was busy buaying all the gorgeous people like Ada, Hendrika, Trish, Destynee, Ivy, Kaila, Rayne, Hui Ling, Cindy, JB+co, the bar crew of TocaMe, the bar crew of +plus. Trish made the comment that Nic didn't sit in one place for long. LOL, Nic was very busy with her hands. :-O
At about 12:30 am, the gurls decided to search for OSO bar at 145 Kreta Ayer Road. We hunted high and low but we couldn't find it. Nic braved the night and went out to ask the nice looking people sitting outside +PLUS bar and learned that OSO had closed down and +PLUS was the remake. About a dozen of us went into the bar dressed to the hilt. The nice thing about this was the people in +PLUS were actually excited to see us. They were very gracious and friendly. We met with Ray and Aaron the owners of +PLUS. Looks like we may try to host our monthly BDSM event there. +PLUS is very spacious, comfortable and has black leather sofas. Oooo ooo ooo ...leather couch and SM...shiver me timbers. The gurls played pool, sang KTV and interviewed a few of the transexual sisters that frequented +plus. Rayne, Hui Ling & Hendrika were very captivated with the experience shared by our new tgurl sister who gave her account of transitioning. While the three of the tgurls were taking notes on transitioning outside, inside +plus, we found our aces of pool. A tip for any would be pool sharks: never bet against the pool queens: Her Royal Highness Pool Queen Kaila, Her Royal Songstress - Princess Ivy & Princess Joy.
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BDSM societies in ASIA:Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs South East Asia (Thailand,Malaysia,Indonesia,Singapore,Vietnam): http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdmsASIAnetwork China: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

Singapore Gurlz sure know how to to PAAARRRTTTYYYY....

Singapore Gurlz sure know how to to PAAARRRTTTYYYY....
Singapore, 7th June 2008
The first weekend of June started out with a smashing fun time at Tocame. This sure beats watching re-runs on the telly. This night is where I found what a glass of Absinthe Red (80% alcholol, 160 proof) can do to me. I should have gone for Absinthe Green (75% alcohol, 150 proof) or Absinthe Black (85% alcohol, 170 proof) but I would have been able to contained my horniness...,no I mean my homeyness. After the drink I was really enjoying the gurls...er...I mean ... I was enjoying the night. Bua tahan...you reall have to check out the gurls and girls in TocaME yourself.
The night was made even more enjoyable by two Dominants from our BDSM Societies: Sir Alex the Rope Master extraordinaire and Master R (heh heh I am not telling u his name but he is quite a looker). Of course no pics of the two Masters as per their requests.
The estrogen level in TocaMe was at an all time high & of course it's not a wonder since it was after all a lesbian bar. We sat at the Khyber Pass of the bar: anyone who wanted to go to the restroom had to pay us toll (a hug, a kiss, or allow us to pat/swat their bum). The gurls and girls that paraded by us were really quite a sight. I can't believe all these gorgeous women could squeeze in this little bar. Its time like this I am glad that I could sneak into a lesbian bar like a wolf in sheep skin.
Some of the gurls went over to Taboo to check out the swim wear fashion show. They were disappointed since they couldn't even get into the place. It was jammed pack. When our scouting party came back to TocaMe and reported the super crowded condition at Taboo, we decided instead that our second destination would be Backstage. We were pleasantly surprise, there was a group of fun expats that looked like the naughty version of the arabian nights. They just came from a costume party. Kaila kissed Britney Spears while I spanked her luscious butt. The gurls danced the nite away teasing my fellow buayas (crocs, sharks, horn dogs) in Backstage. I wanted to watch Too Wong Foo starring Patrick Swayze & Wesley Snipes but I was so distracted by all these hot bodies gyrating all around me. My hands were busy multi-tasking in ham-saping (groping), drinking, doing my make-up, gossping, combing my hair, flirting and watching the Two Wong Foo DVD that was showing on the big plasma screen.
The gurls went to supper at Lau Pasat after a whole evening, night and morning of awesome partying.
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A fun night at TocaMe

A fun night at TocaMe
Singapore, 25 May 2008.
We had antother fabulous night at TocaMe .The management and patrons there are very friendly and they made us feel at home. We made quite a new friends that night. We had the beautiful la chica bonita Chantal , our friends (Pat, Shirley), Hendrix who wanted a break from being a gurl :-O, the bodilicious Ivies (Ivy Sr., Ivy Jr.), the scrupmtious Trish (so yummilicious...), sexy legs Joy, Kaila the gorgeous (very elegantly dress my dear) and my precious darling Adaline (who got spanked when everyone was busy KTV'ing ...hee hee). I can't believe there's so many beautiful gurls for me to ham sap for being in one night. Ham sap is a colloquail term referring to an incorrigible gropper.
We viewed the photos from Yvonne, Joy and Adaline's Bangkok trip. WOW wee.... They had a lot of pictures which they didn't load onto the internet. It seems that they had too much fun packed into 4 days. No wonder the gurls look tired.
The last night was made special as I bumped into a good friend of mine from Shanghai, Charlene. She's one of the very supportive moderators of the ShanghaiLBGT board who tirelessly organize a lot of cool events for its members. I almost came to tears when I saw her. It was out of the blue and a real icing on the cake to make the Saturday outing a real memorable one. I had some news not all that good about the LGBT scene in China. I was told that the authorities there are being a stinker and they raided one of my favorite haunts in Beijing (Mudidi / Destination) allegedly looking for drug pushers. Ya, okay whatever @#^&%@&%#.
The gurls sang a few songs but after a few glasses of alchol, they loosen up and they would have made the singers in American Idol envious. Our soon to be discovered sweet & smooth crooners - Ivy Jr, Kaila, Trish, and Joy. Of course the club discovered my talent last night beside ham sap-ing: croaking and scaring the girls & gurls with my terrible singing. Hendrika care to join me in KTV-ing in a soundproof room?
For more fun fill ideas for you weekends, come join in the fun at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
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Saturday Night lounge lizards

Saturday Night lounge lizards
19-20 May 2008, Toca Me Bar, Singapore
It was a last minute thing but it was an excellent way to spend the Saturday. I got a call from my gurlfriend Kaila who said that she wanted to hangout out in a cool bar that was not crowded. After some discussion we narrowed down the list to two bars: the OSO bar and TOCA ME. Maybe we ccould hit both bars in the same night? Kaila picked me up from my place and TOCA ME was our first stop.

We liked the place so much that we didn't leave until they literally told us it was closing time. The Karaoke system was pretty cool. We belted out quite a few songs. I never knew that Kaila was such a fantastic singer.
Besides being drag queens, we ended up being mic-hogging queens as well.

We were later joined by our beautiful and vivacious sista, Trisha. Looking at her shored up my courage to continue my journey in my evolution. She's gave me quite a lot of advise on HRT, the do's and don'ts which were all earned from a lifetime of experience. I was really pumped with someone as beautiful and experience as her to talk about my fears and aspirations of going fulltime.

A new foreign friend came by to join us for a drink. He was very very cute and I think Trisha liked him a lot. But he was soooo young. I felt like a cradle robber. So did anything happen? Har har har har har ....so nosy.
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Fetish Lingerie Night

Fetish Lingerie Night
Singapore, 10-11th May 2008
What does Saturday, fetish, kink, lingerie and Singapore have in common? Five words: fun, fun, fun, fun, and fun. Is Singapore happening or what? With F1 and IR looming on its horizon, the SM community is adding excitement and spice to Singapore by staging its on kinkilicious fun fetish lingerie night at Backstage Bar. A few of the gurls were really excited to meet the gorgeous Mistress Minky and a very beautiful mix SM couple; no photos shown as per their request. We were treated to a nice peek inside the intricate rope work worn by a very beautiful (maybe a sWitch) slave girl. The rope work was superb. A single rope criss-crossed beautifully across the naked flesh.
The gurls were really nervous about the performance despite chugging down quite a fair bit of alcohol. At 10pm, the place was still very crowded, the 'victims' ...sorry.... 'performers' begged to postpone the show to one an hour later. At 11pm, the place was still crowded. The gurls again pleaded to postpone the show to midnight. Come midnight, the crowd finally thinned out and .... woo hoo... total mayhem...
What happened after the lingerie show was SM mayhem. Everyone who showed their bum got a taste of the flogger and the paddle. It was sin, sin, sin, fun, fun, and more fun. One of the slaves had so much fun that she fell asleep from exhaustion. We thought of selling her to some slavers but she was drooling quite badly so we thought we just let her sleep it off and we have to respect our almost retired veteran :-P.
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Singapore: Blink Blink bind bind Party

Singapore: Blink Blink bind bind Party
Singapore, 26 April 2008.

The theme "Blink blink & Bind Bind: time to find Your slaves and your Dominant" was a blend of fashion and fetish. It allowed people who are novices in SM to see how easy it was to bring in everyday accessories into SM play.
This is how this party worked. Slaves & subs wore two metal bangles one on each hand. Dominants brought locks with them and if they found a sub of their licking the place the lock on their chosen subs bangles.
Sounds simple and easy? It is but the ice had to be broken first. We were very lucky that night since we were given a private party space on the third floor. The room was provided us with better intimacy. The group was little nervous and shy at first. That quickly changed when the locks started being issued out. There's just something inexplicably erotic about locking up a sub's bangles and seeing their submissive demeanor thereafter.
What ensued after the locking up ceremony was a Saturday worth looking forward to. Every got a taste of being a Dominant or submissive in a game of chance.

Crops, chains, canes, ropes, gags, and whatever else that comes to the mind of our Mistresses and Masters were used to put the sub in their rightful place. There were spanking, foot worship, boot worship, caning, bondage, gagging, hog-tie, extreme bondage, and many more fun SM adventures throughout the night. No rest of the wicked!!
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Blings, winks, and kinks on a Saturday Night.

Blings, winks, and kinks on a Saturday Night.
19-20 April 2008
MOX (http://www.mox.com.sg/), Singapore
A hot and sultry night it was but we're not talking about the weather. The joint BDSM society and SGGURLS outing saw 23+ gorgeous people gathering, catching up with each other and just having a wonderful Saturday evening. The shy boy slave mark turned 3* years old. You have to ask Mistress Karen (cheekymama) to reveal his age if you want to know how old mark is. Master Stict & his lovely slave reen graced our gathering all the way from KL. This was their first meeting in Singapore and they were quite happy meeting new friends. Slave dickson gave free leg and foot massages to all the Mistreses all night long and he's much better than the machines.
Much later, Master Ram & Cat decided to check out some dance clubs at Clark Quay. Master Alex & slave winnie, Mistress Karen & slave mark, Master Warren, Mistress Rayne, Scarf Mistress Hendrika & his lovely wife, and slave nan (MJ's slave) adjourned to have some supper. The gurls went over to tantric for some more booze and socializing.
We had some very good friends that took time off their busy schedule to drop by, say hi and good bye. Thanks slave Jason,?,?,?,?.
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AIRCREW night party

AIRCREW night party
Singapore4th April 2008The SGGURLS sure know how to throw a fabulous Aircrew night party. Backstage bar was really packed with many of the regulars whom we have befriended anticipating to see the gurls decked out their stewardess uniforms. There were quite a few people who got fooled and thought that some of the stewardess stopped over for drink straight from their flight stop. The gurls did not disappoint. They look so sexy and fabulous in their airline dresses.
We got a special treat from Destynee, Lola, and Clements with their lovely rendition of the Spice girls. I think our Singaporean version of SPICIER GURLS are more scrumptious and stunningly snazzy.
What is a party without a little spanking and whipping? We were lucky to be graced by the voluptuous and vivacious Mistress G from our BDSM society (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork). What is a party without a little kinkiness to spice up the night. Put togehter a Mistress and a slave, we got a sizzling recipe for a hot tropical fun night. We got our favorite models to demonstrate a little SM art. I am sure adaline will not be sitting comfortably for the next few days.
The party was suppose to celebrate one of the gurls birthday Yvonne. Unfortunately we could not get her to come due to some last minute things that Yvonne had to deal with so we wish her HAPPY BIRTHDAY.
For more information on our Singapore transgender society, please go to http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
SE Asia BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/groups/bdsmASIAnetwork
China BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork

2 birthdays and a caning

2 birthdays and a caning
Singapore, 15-16 March 2008
Please pinch me, I must be in SM and tgurl heaven!! We may have found a little piece of SM and tgurl heaven on earth and its tucked away in a little bar called Backstage in China town. We got to to finally meet the lovely Miss Kae and slave keith from Jakarta after more than two years of correspondences. They were tired from shopping and spanking the number of misbehaving slaves that were lining up at their doorsteps. Earlier in the afternoon a couple of slaves got their buns marked. The latest lucky slave to receive the therapeutic rattan cane that evening was slave ada. When I showed up at Backstage the first thing slave ada said to me was: "Ouch ouch... the the caning vely painful ahhh...I lost count after the 3 strokes. I suppose to get 10 but i didn't last pass 5." I could not stop laughing to hear this Ah Lian sobbing and rubbing her little tushy.
We had such wonderful time with our close friends Scarf Bondage Master Hendrik & his lovely Mistress partner, Master Ramseus, Mistress MK & slave, the beautiful slave winnie {sir Alex's property}, slave dickson and the Sggurls with a pleasant star surprise Ms Destinee. (Many of them not in our pictures. They're picture shy). It didn't take too long for the party to warm up. The bar was jam-pack last night but our dearest Backstage Bar friends reserved our usual corner for us.
The two birthday gurls Kaila and Ivy Jr had their 'surprise' birthday bash at Backstage bar. Thanks to Ada who organized the cakes for both the gurls. Kaila had the delicious and very colorful mango fruit cake. The colors and softness of the cake reflected her inner beauty within, her genuine warmth and soft heartedness.
Ivy is young, sweet and very beautiful so we gave her the black forest chocolate cake.
Since she was sooo late we tied her her up as well.

While we were punishing Ivy, we decided to punish both birthday gurls.
We had a lovely surprise from the very talented and gorgeous Miss Detinee who gave a superb performance for both birthday gurls. All of us were so delighted by the performance. Ramseus also gave us a booty shaking performance (...no picture taken at his request).
The SM society and SGGURLS sure know how to party on a Saturday.

BDSM society in SE Asia: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork
BDSM society in CHINA: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmCHINAnetwork
Trangender group in Singapore: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

bdsmASIAnetwork: Corset Night

bdsmASIAnetwork: Corset Night
Singapore, Saturday, 8th March 2008'Tis was a hot night, sizzling with some of the sexiest people in Singapore and they were all in MOX on a Saturday night sipping magaritas, wines and delicately well mixed house pours. Straights, bis, gays,lesbians and trangenders were there just hanging out and having fun.

In a little corner of the bar, were the SM'ers. They are like the vampires who walk amongst normal humans with their keenly developed sexuality. These extra cool people were kinkiest and deliciously good looking people who meet regularly to share their skills and toys. There were various levels of SM'ers in the meeting from the experts, lifestylers, novices to the curious, all the people that were surveyed had a fabulous time trying out the toys brought by Mistress MK. Master Alex's slave spotted her new collar which unfortunately I can't publish her picture here. Master Warren had his slave decked in the most exquisite red color corset. Master Brian had to suck in his gut to try on a leather harness that made him look like a Trojan warrior. Master Zack was with his lady slave from Vietnam. Master Ramseus brought his curious lady friend to the meet.

The ladies that were present that night would make the lesbians and hot blooded straight guys wagging their tongue. For the people who had retifism (shoe/boot fetish) and podophilia (Foot Fetish), they were in seven heaven. The ladies had killer thigh high PVC boots and heels on. I know that these fantastic looking femme made me quiver in my boots.

For more information on the BDSM scene in SE Asia, please go to:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmASIAnetwork

BDSM on a Thursday night...

BDSM on a Thursday night...

BDSM on a Thursday night is like adding nitro to the weekend jetpack. I am still smiling with only 2 hours sleep and Friday feels like a weekend. The SGDOMSUBS group (http://group.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs) is Singapore's very own homegrown SM society that is open to all D/s enthusiast. The group helps people bring their SM play to the next level by bringing its members together to share their various techniques of SM play. The SGDOMSUBS society promotes safe, sane and consensual play at all times.
There were about 20-25 SGDOMSUBS members that showed up for the meet. I lost count after the 15 minutes when I saw my slaves lounging around and not doing anything. Slave ada was put in bondage by Sir Alex and slave dickson was put to good use as a foot massager. One of the member who came to the meet last night was very generous. She contributed a lot of gears to the group. We'll keep the her gears for safe keeping and she can always get it back if she wants to; just email me or slave ada ..;-)
Mistress MK and her slave brought some magnificent leather and PVC wear from Hong Kong. She's got an excellent eye for high quality and fashionable goods.

Master Alex our resident rope bondage master, Sir Hendrik, Mistress Rayne, Mistress MK, Mistress Jacquiline, slave dickson, Joy, slave Ada, Ivy, ....i forgot the names of many more wondeful people I met that night. I think there were 20-25 people altogether although they came and went at different times. One note to take, don't get any blonde gurls to remember stuff. A few drinks and *~+++$%%$%^...kaput goes the gurl. In case the reader is wondering, I don't post their pictures unless I get their consent.
P.S. if anyone finds my plug which slave Ada was sucking on, please contact me. It would be embarassing letting the MOX management team find my plug lying around somewhere. It needs washing.
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Singapore BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs

St James Power Station of Singapore: a center of random discrimination

St James Power Station of Singapore: a center of random discrimination
We were out just out to have a good time and relax after a week of hectic schedule. As for me, what more can a gurl ask for other than her best gurlfrens to hangout with in their favorite bar; the Backstage bar. For those who know me too well, what would a night be without bondage? Check out Kaila's blue cuffs - Kaila is the gorgeous gurl in white blouse. Ada took a surprise picture of us while I was trying to figure out if I should hog-tie Kaila or Ivy.
Backstage bar was very crowded that Saturday night and the gurls were a sporting enough so we decided to venture to St James Power station despite all the bad rep we hear about how they treat tgurls.
True enough to the bad rep at St James (http://www.stjamespowerstation.com/), we were denied entrance into the Gallery Bar. The bull dog at the door said that we're not VIP enough. I guess our Singaporean Dollars have lesser value than the regular people who spend them. We manage to gain entry into the Boiler Room which is still within the managemnet of St James and of course we had to pay the full cover when we fail to produce our ID to prove our gender.
For you all tgurls out there my advise is give St James a pass. It's not worth the cover charge. Go to any of the bars in the Tanjong Pagar belt (http://www.utopia-asia.com/singbars.htm) and have a blast.