Friday, December 28, 2007

The last Singapore BDSM meet of 2007

The last Singapore BDSM meet of 2007

We broke chairs, flogged bottoms, tied hands, and ...
.... put slaves in their place with ropes.
Thanks to Sir Alex, Mistress Nicole, slave ada, sub sheila, sub jack, slave dickson, shy rayne and our guest for making the last SGDOMSUBS meet of 2007.

Singapore BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
China BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmchinanetwork
Singapore transgender: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls

Sunday, December 23, 2007

Singapore: Xmas party with the Santarinas of Sggurls



Singapore: Xmas party with the Santarinas of Sggurls
Singapore, 22 Dec 2007
'Tis was a hot steamy X'mas celebration in our cozy favorite bar. The gurls looked so lovely and very festive. They sure did look like the sexy Santarinas that the made the patrons at Backstage go goo goo ga ga over. We were very lucky to be graced by two members of the SGDOMSUBS group, Master Mark (kamerad_eks) and slave dickson. The gifts started stacking up as time advanced quickly from 9:30 pm into midnight. Our gurls and friends started to fill the bar.
The gift exchange was ...er...too formal? LOL, this was the comment from Kaila the gurl with the sexiest and longest legs in Singapore. In actuality, after a few rounds of alcohol, no one knew what they were doing.
The party really started to pick up after 2:00 pm. With some encouragement from our friends at Backstage Bar and a little bit more alcohol to loosen up everyone, the gurls started getting kinky and were oozing out seductiveness from their pores.
We got to .......become the Domme Santarina demanding to be worshipped , ...practice our scarf Bondage on Cindy,
....witness a little naughty lez play, ...engage in lots of spanking fun,
....and finally getting a little shagging.

'Tis was a night to remember. Merry Christmas and a happy new year.
luv,


Singapore BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
Singapore Trangender / CD group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
China BDSM: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmchinanetwork

Saturday, December 15, 2007

Singapore BDSM and tgurls outing: Tattoo party - marking Your property










Singapore BDSM and tgurls outing: Tattoo party - marking Your property
SingaporeSaturday-Sunday, 15-16th December 2007













Life would be ever so b&b (bland and boring) without spice.

The spice of this weekend is the tattoo party where the Dominant chooses a temporary tattoo and the slave has to wear it for a specified duration. Though the tattoo is temporary and the duration ranges from a few hours to a few days, the feeling that the Dominant and slave share is very erotic and intimate. BDSM is not always about just tying people up and spanking them silly. 80% of BDSM is in the mind which happens to be the largest sex organ of homosapiens.







The slave sometimes gets to choose the location of where the Dominant will place the tattoo. This discretion and generosity depends from on Dominant to the other. Some Dominant chooses the location of the tattoo which hopefully is not on the slave's forehead.
Adaline our webmistress for the SGGURLS group picked some of the most lovely tattoos. The design ranged from flower motifs to some very extravagant oriental dragon pattern. My personal favorites were the dragon and the scorpion. One on each side of my cleavage.
Master Alex our resident bondage expert from SGDOMSUBS brought lots of ropes and toys. Our voluteer / slaves were literally tied up for hours or until the cried for mercy. In attendance of the fabulous tattoo party were Master Warren with slave susan, Master John Lestat (SGDOMSUBS founder) with slave stacy, the two lovely Ivys, webmistress / slave adaline, Kaila, sWitch Ken and finally Nicole.

Our gracious host in Backstage bar (http://www.utopia-asia.com/singbars.htm) made us feel at home. Ambience, friendliness, space for us to have fun, discreet location, and little exclusivity makes this bar the perfect choice for us. The choice of venue for our parties and meets may not be that obvious to outsiders since we still want to be discreet.

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Singapore BDSM group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs
Singapore tgurls group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sggurls
China BDSM group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bdsmchinanetwork

Friday, December 7, 2007



The nexus of a paradox: a slave & a MISTRESS
To be a Domme or a slave. To be a man or a woman. This is the paradox that i live in and a fine line that i ride. It is fun and with that I gain so much insight into the mind of both worlds. So in this grey kinky world of BDSM (Bondage & Dungeon, Domination & Submission, Sado-Masochism), i can offer some insight into the world of a Dominant and the world of a slave.




As a Domme
I don't like one liners like 'hey Mistress come twist my nipple or come whip my butt.' One liners earn a quick trip to my iggy bin. I couldn't be bothered to read stupid slaves who can't even be bothered to at least sound like a mutt. I have met half wit slaves and I have yet to find one that can meet my standards. A recent slave in Singapore approach me and beg me to his Mistress. This pathetic worm said that he could take pain. Two swats from my paddle and this slave cried for mercy. What a waste of my time... I am not desperate for slaves. I have more than I can handle. Most literature points that for every 100 subs, there is one Domme. So you can imagine, Dommes are spoilt for choices. I dislike slaves that are disloyal, un-timely, and put my desires above theirs. A slave is a slave and they are meant to serve me. A slave must TRUST Me wholeheartedly as their Mistress and that I will bring no harm to them. they should love me whole heartedly. As a Mistress, the relationship is one that is unequal.




As a slave
i will serve my Mistress with all my heart. Her needs are always above mine. Her satisfaction is my creed. i will tell Her honestly my limitations and try my best to exceed Her expectations. i will finish all assignments given to me by my Mistress without questioning. i will complete my tasks in a timely manner, with no excuses and with total devotion.

For more information: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM